Friday of the 7th week in ordinary time MK10:1-12 (Reflection)

Praised be Jesus Christ!!! Now and forever!!!
In today's Gospel, Jesus talks about the Sanctity of Marriage, the Holiness or the Sacredness of Marriage. "What God has created let no man separate." Jesus said in today's Gospel. Through that word of Jesus, son of God, God himself, only proves that marriage, indeed is sacred, and marriage is only for MAN and WOMAN who has this intimate love within  themselves for each other. Marriage first of all is a vocation, a vocation between two persons and God, which God binds in order to let his graces and the grace of creating new life flow. In our world today, the world we are living is trying to change the meaning of marriage, the sanctity of marriage they are trying to change, by putting in divorce, artificial family planning and same-sex marriage. Through those things marriage is deteriorated, the real meaning of marriage is lost. One of the most beautiful thing God has given us is marriage. For marriage indeed is a plan of God not of man. Marriage is created by God not by man. And it is created in order to let many graces flow through a marriage. Marriage in God's plan is a very hard thing to do. Napakahirap ng kasal sa plano ng Diyos. Bakit? Kasi ang kasal sa loob ng plano ng Diyos, sa loob ng alituntunin ng kanyang simbahan ay nangangahulugang, pang-habang-buhay, life-time, forever. On the first place palagi nating tatandaan na sa Sakramento ng Kasal, Diyos sa pamamagitan ng kanyang pari ang nagbabasbas sa dalawang tao upang sila ay makasal. At sa pamamagitan ng basbas na iyon sila (ang ikinakasal) ay hindi na dalawa ngunit iisa na. They are made one by the grace of God. Ang nakakapangilabot at nakakapanindig balahibo ay ito, ang mga tao ay  patuloy na gumagawa ng bagay na pilit sumisra sa kasagraduhan ng kasal. Mga halimbawa nito ay ang mga nabanggit sa naunang pahayag. Pero why people now a days does not take marriage seriouly? Minsan nga nag kasal ay nagiging usapang pa-bonggahan na lang ehh.. Nawawala na ang kasagraduhan ng kasal. The rest is just flowers, real marriage is about The husban, wife and God. Not about the wedding coordinator na pati ang Liturhiya gusto na atang baguhin. Anyways to return to the main topic, Sacredness of Marriage: As Christ said in today's Gospel: Marriage is

Sacred at dapat sa mulat-mula pa lang ito ay pinaghahandaan na. The Marriage planning starts when one couple meets each other. One's na magkakilala na yan diyan na magsisimula ang mga pagsisiyasat. Kung sa simula palang ng pagiging mag-boyfriend at mag-girlfriend ay puros kapalpakan na, puros pandaraya na sa isat-isa ay aber magdalawang isip na kayo kung nais niyo pang ituloy yang relationship na yan. Kung magkasintahan palang kayo at hinayaan niyo na ang Diyos na mamagitan sa inyo, it only proves that you have the right to move to the next level. Ang kasal, dahil ito ay isang bokasyon ay dapat pinagiisipan ng masinsinan hindi basta-basta dahil mahirap na, na ito pa ang maging sanhi ng mga sakit ng ulo ninyo. Ang kasal, pag ito'y ginalang, pinaghandaan at sineryoso ay magiging tulay kung saan ang mga grasya, ang mga biyaya ng Diyos ay dadaloy. Sagrado ang kasal, stick to the real meaning of marriage, a covenant between a MAN a WOMAN and GOD, in which God makes the MAN and WOMAN one. Plano ng Diyos ang kasal, ginawa niya ito para maipadama niya sa tao, na ang tao ay gusto niyang maging masaya at di mag-isa.

Napakaganda ng plano ng Diyos sa mga mag-asawa. To be specific may mga grasya na para lang talaga sa mga mag-asawa,  exclusive for husbands and wives. Diba napakaswerte natin to have a God who gives a chance to be happy, by giving us this wonderful Sacrament of Marriage. And thanks to marriage human life is formed, human life is created. Wag na wag magpapakasal dahil nabuntis lang ang babae or whatsoever, nawawala ang value ng kasal, bagkus nagkakasala pa ng malala pag ginawa iyon. Magpakasal dahil nandun ang pag-ibig. Magpakasal dahil alam mo yun ang misyon mo. Magpakasal dahil alam mong sa sarili kaya mong dalhin ang mga responsibilidad na kaakibat nito. Wag basta-basta, sa mga usaping bokasyon "LET GOD" dahil yang mga yan plano niya at dahil plano niya, walang sinuman ang makakasira at makakapigil nito. Marriage has love. And where there is LOVE there is GOD. And what good example of that is the love that binds husbands and wives.

Jesus I trust in thee!!!

Oh Mary conceived without sin, pray for us who have recourse to thee!!!